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writes:I've just got into Secondary School(I think it's called High School) and I saw this guy who was really really hot and adorable.The just the other day, I was flipping through my old school yearbook and I saw his picture and I checked with the yearbook I found in the new school's library and the names matched.Then I found out he's in the same house as me.I've passed him a few times and he's smiled for me(he forgot to turn off the water fountain and it overflowed and I laughed at him).Then I saw him start to hang out with this girl from netball. So I thought they were attached and I decided to back off.(they're my seniors by 1 year)Then whenever he passes me or anything, he'd start staring/glaring at me very intensely and I would always return his "gesture" with a really surprised face.But when I was reading the blogs of my seniors(1 of them is my good friend), I found out that he does a bit of counselling among his friends in the Female category and of course, I started to like him more but I started thinking if that girl is his girlfriend because he only goes around with her during lunch perion and possibly after school.Then the other day, his gf was pacing in front of me and my friend and it blocked our route and he asked her to move aside for us to walk. Then the other day when I passed him, I glared/stared at him and his serious face broke out into a mellow smile.With all that, I'm so confused.Actually, my best friend likes him too but she has a strong feeling he likes me, dun ask me why.Since Valentine's day is coming up, should I give him chocolate? I'm getting a friend who knows him to give it to him. Should I? I need an answer asap, THANKS!:]
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to both responders. To peach459, I accidentally put the wrong age. I'm actually 13. I think I'll think it through and see what I finally decide. Thanks again!
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reader, peach459  +, writes (11 February 2009):
I'm a bit confused by your post... are you really 22-25 years old? and just starting at secondary school/high school?
Anyway, I don't know about everyone else, but if I were in that situation I definitely wouldn't get him a valentines gift. At the best it could confuse/embarrass him and he'll most likely ignore it... at the worst he might find it creepy and, if you are secondary school age, he or his girlfriend could make your social life at school difficult. Gestures like that don't usually work out in real life the way they do in the movies.
Why don't you try flirting with him or talking to him? Get to know the guy! For one, find out if he does actually have a girlfriend.
Anyway, that's my advice. Good luck to you and let us know what you decide/what happens.
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reader, xsweet_girlx +, writes (11 February 2009):
 Definately just make sure you kind of give him a hint so o one else will say its them if he asks.
What have you got too lose if you don't somebody else might! and then your going to regret it
just think what would happen if he finds out its you you could become an item
hope this helps =D good luck what ever your choice
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