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writes:i have this problem.. i have a crush on someone, i have a crush on him since january 23, 2008 -- so it means that i have a crush on him for a year. and he's a graduating student while i'm in sophomore year only.. my friends told me that i'm in love with him and my crush knew that i have a crush on him.. what should i do? should i tell him that i love him so much? or should i just let him graduate without telling him how i feel about him? help..
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reader, Chazzy  +, writes (4 February 2009):
To be honest if he was into you he would have said something to you by now. but i do agree with the other lady's answer dont tell him you love him it will scare him off, i went out with a guy for about 3days and i told him i loved him when he was leaving my house and his reply was "yeah" and he basicly dumped me the next day. If he knows you like him dont try to make something happen because it wont. maybe he is just really not in to you and theres something wrong with him. hes not worth your time if hes not in to you. there is some one way better out there for you who is totally into you. you just havnt found him yet because its not time. dont give up on love just yet because mr right is out there looking for you to, you just need to learn a few things b4 you find him. so do i. i hope i was some help love, good luck :] xoxo
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 February 2009):
If he knows that you like him and he hasn't asked you out then telling him you love him will just freak him out.
Unrequited love is the most painful thing in the world. I was in love with a guy in my year at school for 2 and a half years and I used to cry myself to sleep at night.
But once you stop seeing him around it will make life easier. Try hard to get over him, look at other guys and try not to let yourself think of him. Distract yourself. You have to try or you will end up in a pit of self pity for a long time and that is not a good place to be.
Good Luck!! xx
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