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writes:ok so i am 21 years old and i am really attracted to this guy, but he has a girlfreind.. i know all of you would be like forget him, he is committed i agree and i have tried not liking him but i cant.. i am drawn to him every time i pull back.. this guy lets call him kyle.. so kyle and i study in the uk but we go to different schools and he has a long distance relationship with this girl who is in new jersey! so kyle tells my best friend that he would date me he was single, he calls me pretty and u know that harmless flirting.. i am not saying i am in love with him but i really want to date this guy i have never been attracted to anyone like i am to him but i have never told him about how i feel cuz i dont know how he will react.. well he texts me a lot and if i dont reply he will be all sad about it, but he has been very clear abt his gf frm the start.. how do i get over this guy?
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reader, Priyanka09  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 hey,
these feelings are quite natural....specially when even the guy is responsive....since his gf is not in the same town...he can easily text u, call you etc....but this is increasing ur liking for him....if u really want to get over him, you will have to keep him in some distance...I completely know its easier said than done....but if you stay in touch with him, and keep talking to him, you wont be able to get over him....He can never be urs...thats a fact...he is in a serious 6 year relationship and u would not want yourself to be a cause to break it...so stay at distance if possible from him!!
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reader, Red591  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 normally (being a victim of a cheater) I would say leave him alone but a long distance relationship always seems so stupid to me. I would say his love for her is strong to keep that up but it won't work out in the end. Long distance stuff is a waste but im sure some people can do it. I never would even try it. I guess I say tell him cause that long distance thing can't last
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