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writes:I'm 19 this year, never had a boyfriend, never had sexual intercourse before. I have felt lonely for many years. Having been involved in zero relationships my entire life, I sometimes find it hard to suppress my sexual desires. I turn to masturbation but sometimes, its never enough. Recently, I met a 24 year old guy online and it didn't take long before I revealed my naked self to him and masturbated in front of the cam for him. He's very experienced sexually and has an obsession for BDSM. I know how wrong and potentially dangerous it was but I couldn't help it: my body felt good and alive. He then offered to be my 'sex teacher.' We made it clear that this is non-committal and nothing serious and we're not expecting anything except for fun. He finds it fun because he found a virgin (i.e. me) that he could exert his fantasies on and I find it fun because I could learn a lot from him and I have a platform to exercise my desires. I realized after a few sessions that this might not do me any good.. I'm worried that he can/might record me and blackmail me in the future should I decide to end the arrangement. But at the same time, I enjoy our sessions and him. I don't love him or anything but I like him and enjoy his company. Not to mention he's got me attracted to the idea of spanking, bondage, D/S etc. I know it'll be hard for me to find a guy who enjoys BDSM like him and I've come to like dominant guys like him.So please, aunts, help me with this problem. What should I do from here? Am I wrong for agreeing to this thing? Am I going to face problems since I've revealed so much of myself to him in front of the cam? Thank you so much in advance, all help is very much appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012): Hi. There is always a risk that you could be blackmailed if you are performing sex acts live on a webcam. For all you know, footage of you performing sex acts on yourself has already been uploaded onto porn sites.
I dont know why you feel you can trust this stranger who has identified you as lonely, groomed you and manipulated you into performing these acts. But I certainly would not trust him anymore than you should. I would stop doing this and spend your time seeking a decent boyfriend instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012): If I were you, i would stop. You don't know him...he could very well be recording it. If you don't want it to get out, than stop.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (2 May 2012):
 Stop stop STOP!! Do you even realize the implications of your actions?! You meet a 24 year old guy online, one who is into BDSM, and you are masturbating for him on camera?!!! You know it really amazes me how people are, are you seriously THAT stupid? "Sex teacher" apparently! Seriously, get off the internet, block this guy, get a hold on your life. You cant undo what you've already done, but you can at least not create any further problems.
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