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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I really need some advice.I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, it started off great (as it normally does) but over time it's got worse, he just doesn't seem interested anymore. I told him a few weeks ago that I couldn't carry on like this, but he begged me not to leave him and tells me he loves me, so why is he being so cold with me!Our sex life used to be fantastic, but we haven't slept together for over a month no matter what I do.I don't understand why he would beg me to stay with him then be so distant.I've tried talking to him but he just changes the subject and I get annoyed so shut up to prevent an argument.All my friends say I should leave him, but I still love him.Thanks in advance for your advice. X
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 The spark and fire in your relationship is gone.
You need to add more fuel and fireworks or this relationship will be doomed.
It will need to to start the fire again..
If he is unwilling, then only God can help you.
Loving someone whose heart has grown cold is not a very good prospect.
Reinvent or wilt.....
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reader, Emmy-Lou +, writes (20 March 2008):
 I would say leave him aswell, your still young and you don't need that kind of hassle in your life.He has begged you to stay then become distant, this is because he knows he can pull your strings whenever he feels like it.Don't put yourself in that position. Say your going to end it and end it.Cut all your ties from him and start fresh, no one deserves to be pushed and pulled by anyone, it's just not fair.Hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): You are a bit young to be having this heavy stuff, so if i was you i would have a good long chat with him and ask him just what the hell is going on. Tell him that you just cannot go on like this and want to sort it out for once and for all. Tell him that you love him but you dont like the way it is going. But personally i would move on, you are much too young for this shite.
take care
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