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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been talking to this guy off and on for about 3 years now. I met him online. We have not slept together, but have gone out on several dates. We live about 2 hours away from each other. I am incredibly attracted to him and he always says that I am the most attractive woman he's seen in a long while; so I think he's pretty attracted to me.But, the thing I don't like about him is that he tends to disappear on the weekends, this has been the cause of our offs. I would stop talking to him for months at a time. Then he would contact me again and we keep going like that. He seems to be much more responsive to me nowadays and he calls me all the cute names like babe, beautiful, and so on. He always tells me that he misses me and that he wishes I was with him when we are away from each other.BUT, then it bothers me that he doesn't spend his weekends with me. He spends it with his son and mother, sister, father. He also doesn't have consistent weekends off: sometimes it's one day off on a random day. I have brought this up to him, and he says that he works a lot and then he tries of spend the weekends with his son (when he gets a day off). And I like him so much that I am considering forgetting spending weekends with him and just be happy with the time we do spend together. He has let me into his life more and more over the years. I wondered if you all think that this is someone I should continue seeing, or move on? I am looking for a serious relationship, not just a fling.Thank you for your help and insight!!
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reader, suzzzque232 +, writes (9 March 2015):
 have you ever been to his house??? if not theres a reason why...hes married! if you have why dont you try just dropping by on the weekend just to see whats up.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 March 2015):
 He "disappears" on weekends because his WIFE.. or his REAL GIRLFRIEND put a squeeze on his time....
Think twice about spending even another MINUTE with this cad.....
Good luck...
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