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writes: hey everyone :)I'm just going to jump right into this. So I just graduated high school and theres guy I like but I NEVER told him once. I have liked him for 7 years and I hate that I didn't tell him, is it too late? I actually can't even tell him for another month because he doesn't have a cellphone due to being at boot camp. So yeah basically I'm asking if it's too late and also can someone help me with what to say? I am so lost because in the 13 years I was in school I never had a boyfriend so this is all really hard even though I was rejected 7 times this year.(also I am pretty close friends with him so the reason I haven't told him is because I feel like I've probably already been megga friendzoned)thanks in advance for the help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2014): I think your problem is going to correct itself. You don't state your age, but it is set at 16-17. Seven years ago you were only 9 or 10.
If you don't say something or do nothing, no one will know anything. If he has been a friend, let it stay that way. If he wanted it to be anything else he probably would have said so by now.
You need more time to grow-up and things will start to make more sense to you. Crushing secretly on people is typical for your age.
You're not mature enough to know anything but that. Hiding in shyness and crushing. You need to grow confidence; and to spend more time being friends with "other girls" your age, in order to develop your social skills. Then you'll be noticed by boys. You're not ready for boys quite yet.
That's why guys reject you, because they think you're too young. You're too desperate about "having a boyfriend" and not letting things happen naturally. So now you're directing your attention on a boy you figure will be easier to approach. A friend.
Don't tell your "friend" you have feelings; because it will crush you if he doesn't feel the same for you. You're not ready for that yet.
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