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writes:I need some help I've been accused of stalking for about 4years 2 years in middle school and 2 years in high schoolI swear I have never stalked anyone but it seems like it's every girl I talk to( example: hey how are you, or I don't use hand gestures but only hello) will accuse me, well it hasn't happened in awhile since 2008 but im so scared of being accused or worse Im going on a date but I'm so scared because what every girl has done to me Why would a girl accuse me of stalking and how can I prevent it from happening again
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 They were probably just immature and did you say hi to the same girl many times before she accused you of that? Im guessing they didn't know you that well? So maybe they thought you were weird saying hi when they didn't know you. Im guessing this because I find it hard that someone who knows you would accuse you of stalking when they should know better. And then again immature girls probably don't get it when someone is just trying to be nice.Try not to let it get to you, you were unlucky with a few girls but you've yet to meet many many girls and women. Just stay cool and if they don't say hi back and smile at you just ignore them instead of trying to say hi. If a girl doesn't smile at you when you greet her she's either stuck up and snobbish or doesn't know you well enough=dont bother saying hi to strangers.
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Stalking is a serious accusation. It needs evidence, and most importantly, past offenses.
It looks to me that you've had quite the experience. Maybe it isn't your intention, but do you continuously talk to these women? What they thought was just for fun you took seriously. Did you constantly email, text, and/or call them?
Think for a moment here. Because there obviously has to be a reason why they're accusing you.
If not, ask them. Ask them your actions. What you consider to be "okay" they may not.
Good luck to you.
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