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writes: My boyfriend and i have been having trouble when it comes to having sex.It hasn't happened yet but this isn't for lack of trying.It's my first time and he has quite a big penis.Because of this it's too hard for him to insert his penis in me.My vagina is really tight and it hurts when he tries to put it in.I know i don't have my hymen anymore so it's not that.And he has managed to get his finger inside me a few times but not that far,it hurts really quickly.We've tried getting his penis in me but it was too sore.I was wondering if there was anything i could do to stretch myself or make it easier?We've tried lubricant and that doesn't work,this problem is getting really annoying for both of us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2008): try more foreplay...i hear that helps...i had the same problem, but i didnt know how to deal with it...have him touch the right spots at the right times and take it from there....relax...play some calming music in the background or something
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): i have the same problem but i just keep trying i can tell when i finger her it opens more and more each time just keep trying
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): keep trying, i know it does hurt. try masturbating also that does help to.
you may be tense from the past trys. wait until your relaxed enough to try again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): Have him use his tongue till you're ready. If he's still too big, take a hint and find somebody else more your size (and I'm not kidding either).
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 masturbate... that will help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): I would suggest that you keep trying, I know its very uncomfortable but its the best way for you to stretch the entrance to your vagina.
Just take it easy and try a little more each time, he doesnt have to move inside you at first just keep putting his penis in and out for as long as you are comfortable with and you should be able to accomadate him after a week or so of this.
It depends how brave you are, I mean medically there isnt really a risk of him damaging you, the vagina is designed to strecth to allow a baby to be born.
So unless he is as large as a babies head then you should be fine!.
But seriously just keep trying, its not very likely that he will cause any damage so just have fun trying. and remember the more tense and nervous you are the tighter the entrance will be so relax as much as you can.
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