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writes: Should I break up with my boyfriend??I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now and things have been really good and really bad all at the same time. You see, I'm 17 and he just turned 23. My family doesn't approve of the relationship at all. They have meet him before and they pretty much say he's no good for me. So I'm having to hide our relationship and I'm lying to my dad so that I can go see him. The thing is, he's the sweetest, kindest guys I've ever known outside of my family. He's always there for me and he respects me. He has a pretty bad past that's hard to ignore though. He's slept around with quite a few girls in his past and I absolutely can't stand players. I also do not believe in one night stands. I believe that sex should be saved for someone you really love and care for.But anyways I found all this out not from him, but from one of his old friends. He's never cheated on a girl before, which is good, but I don't like his morals. He was my first, but we gave it some time before we did anything like that. He tells me that all of that was in the past and that he's not that guy anymore. It's just really hard to believe him sometimes because he has lied to me before. I don't really know what to do. I love him with all of my heart and we have a lot of fun when were together. He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy when it comes to how loving he is. He would do whatever he could to make me happy. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and I feel the same way most of the time. I don't know, I know that he wouldn't go looking for a girl but I think if the situation came up and a girl threw herself at him he wouldn't stop her. He's also very open about our "personal love life" and bothers the hell out of me. I've told him to stop it but he keeps doing it. It's like he doesn't think it's a big deal at all! I have talked to him about all this but he just wants me to forgive and forget...I'm trying to do that but I don't know if I can.... I want to be with him but I don't know if He's really right for me....what should I do? Is this relationship worth holding on to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): You are obviously having doubts about your relationship otherwise you wouldn't be asking the question. In my experience if you are feeling this way and having trust issues, maybe it's time for you to take a break just to evaluate your own feelings.
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