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writes:So its finnally over I ended my on again off again affair of 4 years. Why do I feel so sad now I should be relieved that he is out of my life. I cant get over who miserable I feel now?.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am interested in your book I just cant afford it right now. If there is a cheaper version of it could you let me know? I am trying to get on with my life but as you said it is hard. I plan on just keeping myself very busy and spend allot of time trying to forget about all of this... thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you I will beginn to live my life and not dwell on the past. I have learned an ugly lesson and I will learn from it. It was a long time but im not dead yet I have many years left.... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you I will beginn to live my life and not dwell on the past. I have learned an ugly lesson and I will learn from it. It was a long time but im not dead yet I have many years left.... :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2009):
You will hurt as long as you sit and think about him. So phone your friends and get out there. Find a hobby or several where you can meet other men. Give yourself plenty of time to heal (4 years is a long time, and you won't get over him overnight). Then, when you're ready, you'll meet someone who will devote himself to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): 4 years is a very long time to devote your love, time and effort to someone, of course you are going to be upset. Even if it wasn't the most 'convenient' of relationships, you will have devoloped emotions that you cannot just detatch yourself from. What you need to do is get yourself back out there, as hard as it may seem, you deserve the right to be loved for who you are, and for all of you, not just the time that they can make for you when they aren't with there other half. Don't dwell on what if's, as it will only make things worse, start by getting the girls together and having a good night out, don't go looking for love, it will find you when its ready.L x
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