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writes: Hi. I'm going to watch a film with my boyfriend, and it's our first date alone yet. We've got off with each other plenty of times, and I just want to know what I can do with him without going as far as oral sex. I really want some answers, because I don't really know what men like as most of them don't stay with me very long, but I really like the guy I'm going to the cinema with. Any comments will be appreciated! Thanks.
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reader, Doctor Elizabeth  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 Try to relax and enjoy the moment. Enjoy the film with him. Enjoy the time together. Don't add pressure to yourself by second-guessing what may or may not come after the cinema. Be spontaneous and genuine with him. If he wants to go farther than you want to go, then gently tell him that you're not ready for that yet.Best to you,Doc Liz
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reader, sean90  +, writes (26 March 2007):
Hi dont be pressured into doing things you dont want to. If this guy likes you he would be happy just having a kiss, be kind to yourself and dont feel you have to do things just for a guy to like you. Just enjoy each others company. If you give hime oral sex he wont repect you he will just think you are there for that pleasure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): After the film if he asks you to come round to his house (with a knowing face that means that he wants sex) tell him that you'd prefer it if you didn't have sex this time. He might be offended and think that you aren't interested in him anymore. If that's the case then tell him that you want more in this relationship than just sex. Hopefully he'll get the picture and if he feels the same way then he'll agree. If he's only with you due to the sex and dumps you then you know that he isn't worth it.
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