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Life is sweet like the nectar nestled in the heart of spring's first rose. I savor it fully and taste it every day as if it is for the first time.

I have lived a rich, full, sometimes fascinating, sometimes heartbreaking, life.

If I can offer help or advice, let me know. I'm open-minded and not judgmental in the least.

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I dont trust 'average' looking girls!!

Q.   I found that a girl i went very close to was a liar and was cheating on me. She looked average and though i used to only trust good looking girls, i trusted her for the first time. So i made a conclusion that average looking girls are not to be ...

A.   28 March 2007: How would you like it if women looked at you and made these kinds of judgments? I don't think you would like it at all, unless you are a masochist and enjoy being evaluated in such fashion. And, hey, even masochists have their pride, right? Pleas... (read in full...)

Gals, if you just meet a man who turns you on, would you have sex with him right away?

Q.   Women: If a man you meet is extremely good looking or just turns you on, under “any circumstances” you will you have sex with him? One example: I picked up a gal I was sitting next to in a restaurant (at the bar) that told me later I would no...

A.   28 March 2007: Hmmmm. Well, I don't think there is a "one-size-fits-all" answer to this one. But, from my humble perspective, I think it all depends on the woman, the situation, the level of attraction, the pheromones, or whatever. The main thing in matters ... (read in full...)

I keep thinking how lucky he is to have a 19 year old blonde virgin on his arm and what an ego boost.

Q.   I'm an 19 year old virgin and my boyfriend is 36 years old. We have been together for 6 months and I've had lots of fun with him. The thing is...with the age gap. I keep thinking how lucky he is to have a 19 year old blonde virgin on his arm and ...

A.   26 March 2007: I think you are doing yourself a grievous injustice by viewing yourself only in terms of your status as a 30-something-year-old-man's "trophy." If you really care about yourself, and if you want to hang onto this man, then you need to wake up to ... (read in full...)

I'm a 22 year old virgin..still waiting for someone special to share that with. How long is this going to take?

Q.   im a 22 year old male im still a virgin im waiting for that special some one to enter my life ive been waiting for a long time but ive had know look how much longer should i wait ...

A.   26 March 2007: I think it's great that you're waiting until you meet someone who is truly special before making love for the first time. I was in such a rush to try everything when I was a lass, and I definitely went too far, too fast with the wrong people. When I ... (read in full...)

It's our first date alone - what can I do w/out going as far as oral sex?

Q.   Hi. I'm going to watch a film with my boyfriend, and it's our first date alone yet. We've got off with each other plenty of times, and I just want to know what I can do with him without going as far as oral sex. I really want some answers,...

A.   26 March 2007: Try to relax and enjoy the moment. Enjoy the film with him. Enjoy the time together. Don't add pressure to yourself by second-guessing what may or may not come after the cinema. Be spontaneous and genuine with him. If he wants to go farther than you ... (read in full...)

Can a guy have a perfectly normal, loving relationship with a girl but is more sexually attracted to another male?

Q.   Dear Cupid. Is it possible for a guy that tends to be more sexually attracted to guys but more emotionally connected and attracted to girls have a relationship that works out with a girl? A relationship isn't all about the sex is it? and eve...

A.   26 March 2007: I guess the main point here is honesty. If the guy really cares about the girl, he should tell her his feelings and be honest that sex is not the main attraction. I think that all people are capable of all kinds of love, platonic or otherwise, and ... (read in full...)

Anal sex..any harmful affects from doing this long term?

Q.   Are there any long term or harmful effects of anal intercourse over a long period of time?...

A.   26 March 2007: It's fine to have anal sex on occasion, but you want to take it slow and easy. Also, be sure that your partner wears a condom. You can't get pregnant with anal sex, but you can still get an STD. If you enjoy this type of sex and you don't over-do ... (read in full...)

I have a friend who has horrible moods. What should I do?

Q.   i have a friend who goes into horrible moods what should i do?...

A.   26 March 2007: It's very supportive of you to ask advice to help your friend. I'm sure he/she needs love and support. We all do. I think you should tell your friend that you are there any time to talk or whatever. Offer your shoulder to cry on. Tell your friend... (read in full...)

What is the best way to console him about this boy?

Q.   My husband and I have "looked after" R since he left an unhappy home when he was 16. He is now nearly 38 and we have known that he is gay sice he was 20. He has been in several "relationships" all of which have failed to be sustainable. He is an ...

A.   25 March 2007: Hi, I'm very sorry that "R" is having such a problem and that your family is being impacted by it in this way. It is very caring and good of you to try to find ways of helping him. Unfortunately, the problem you describe is becoming more an... (read in full...)

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