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It's like I don't care if I have sex or not. What's wrong with me?

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Question - (23 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I don't seem to want to have sex as much as when me and my husband first got married. I'm 35 years old this 4th of July. We will be married 4 years.

I'm told I should be in my prime. It's like I don't care if I have sex or not. I'm a very attractive woman, my husband tells me all the time I'm beautiful and I feel good about myself. I just don't understand what's wrong with me.

Please help me.

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A reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (23 March 2005):

Rebecca Batchelor agony auntIt seems you don't have problems with confidence or self esteem which is great. You feel wanted by your husband which is super great!

I think what you need to do is take a quick trip to the doctors and explain the problem. Perhaps a hormonal check would be an idea to see if there is a problem.

You say you don't want to have sex as much, do you have sex at all? Do you still enjoy it when you do? How do you feel about your husband? Do you still find him attractive, sexually? You may need to examine how you feel about these issues.

It doesn't matter about supposedly being in your prime. We are all different and unique and shouldn't feel under pressure to be something that we are not.

I think the first thing to do is to consider a trip to the docs.

I hope this helps.

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