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writes:I've been dating a girl for about 4 months now. Its the longest relationship and i like her quite alot. we get along really well and she understands me better than most have in the past. she seems to like me alot however lately ive been wondering about my feelings for her. when i'm not with her i feel like being single again and just having fun. i've met some other girls recently and its made me think about being in relationships at this age. basically, shes perfect for me and i don't want to dump her just because I want to mess around. so what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, hijackedheart  +, writes (26 July 2009):
well, i can honestly say i was the same for a year and a half. and that love was true enough, despite what people say about our age. but. onto you. lol. you're feelings could be there but dont let your insecurity get the better of you. I lost someone i actually loved because of this and i wouldnt want you to feel the same way. but also dont force yourself to be obliged to stay with this girl because shes perfect. maybe you seek alot of attention and you're using that for the the whole "when we're not together" problem. but ask yourself a question...would you still want to be with other women when your with her. and then the answer will guide you into following your next steps x
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reader, Starlights +, writes (25 July 2009):
 its normal to feel attracted to other people.as long as you dont feel anything more to it than that your ok.however as you dont miss her when your away from her, this makes me question whether or not your ready to settle down with just one at this age?good luck
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