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writes:Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i met about 8 months ago and has been together ever since. Im his first girlfriend, so i feel kinda honored. But, the thing is, he lives in Missouri and I live in North Carolina. We've been so much in love and we never thought of breaking up. But now, for the passed month or so, everything has been rocky. I've been cutting myself and he doesn't like it, but i keep getting the thought that he may break up with me. I know this sounds dumb, but its not if you've seen our relationship. He asked me to marry him many times and bought me a ring, I said "yes", but everything has been really rocky and he admitted that he thought about breaking up with me, but he said that he loved me too much. I love him with all my heart and soul and i would never really love anyone again if something did happen..so Cupid..what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (18 July 2010):
 First of all please explain the situation more... How did you two meet? Etc. Do you ever see each other?
Now put down whatever your cutting yourself with because I've got some news for you; guys don't like girls that cut. This apply particularity because he loves you. Every time to cut your self it is like you are cutting him and hurting him as well as yourself. So stop being selfish. If you love him, them stop for your sake and his... Also doing that out of anxiety and fear that he will break up with you is irrational behavior. And if a guy has to deal with that sort of stressful drama he is more likely to break up with you. The only thing that will get him to stay with you is to stop cutting yourself immediately.
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