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writes: Hi me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years then I broke up with him because we were not getting along. I went on to have another 3 year relationship with someone else it has since ended. I have told my ex how I feel about him in a card/letter. He has made the effort to hang out with me at a mutual friends and has even picked me up. He even asked me to go to the store with him last week. I sometimes send him text messages saying have a good day honey or messages like I think you are beautiful. Do you think he could have the slightest interest in me and maybe it will just take time for him to see that I have changed and that he could also be scared that I could hurt him (emotionally) again? Thank you.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 This really depends on WHY you guys broke up. What was the reason? Did you cheat on him? Did you leave him for someone else?
In these situations, you need to prove that you have so changed, that you are not the person that hurt him so. Also, why are you still hooked on him? I am of the mind that if you broke up once, you will do so again. Strong relationships do not go through break up after break up. Are you just missing one particular aspect of him that you have not found in others? That surely will not be enough for something long term. Are you stuck on a fantasy of who you THINK he is, and not who he really is?
-Frank B Kermit of www.frankadviceforyou.com (LBGF-BDSM)
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