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female
age
30-35,
*angerouslyinlove0228
writes:Dear Readers, I, seriously don't know what else to do anymore. I have been thru a lot with my girlfriend. We have been thru so much probably more than an actual married couple. Its basically because of the fact that we're lesbians. I've never been with a girl ever in my life. However, I've never been lucky with guys in the past and when this one girl asked me out. Honestly, I didn't take it serious nor was I excited about it. I actually said yes to her for the hell of it. My friend knew because I told her about my past relationships and she understood. Fortunately, I've gotten to know her much better and began to develop strong feelings for her eventually. Although, we've been thru a lot; involving families and friends in our dramas, somehow we end up together at the end of the day. We just feel very inseparable. Its like we hate that we love each other. Despite all that negativity, I love her with all my heart and she feels thee exact same way. We have been together for a year and 6 months and counting ! Normally, our families never really approved of our relationship. My mom hates her and doesn't want me being with her at all. It breaks my heart knowing that my mom doesn't want me to be with the one I love. I love my mom with every beat of my heart! and I also love my friend very much. I hate having to chose which one to listen to ... Pls. help me.
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (28 August 2012):
 Well mothers want to see daughters with rich or good providing husbands. Which they probably didn't have either so they want best for you. Also most times mom don't like men or women there sons or daughters date. It's just laws of nature they think you could do better. Plus characteristics are program into genes and families. That a lot of times based off if your parents treatment of you. Growing up from childhood that's the kind of mate or partner you will attracted and be with. Wow I should most in likely be with someone that beats me use me and just dogs me out plus lies and manipulates me and others around me. So naturally the parents she that you do have a good of bad mate and wants whichever they thinks best. Plus they might not want to see you happy in a gay or lesbian or bisexual lifestyle or relationships. (gay plus lesbian or bisexual is happy) I would pick my lover because Im not fudging or sleeping with mom or dad. wow lmao. I experienced this too with parents one wants you straight one wants you happy do whatever even if you bi str8 or gay. Although they may not ever approve of alternative lifestyles.
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