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writes: My boyfriend's brother has a baby, and he is so excited and proud of his baby niece, the only way I get to see pictures is when I ask, but to his other friends he sends them constantly, and they're constantly saying how cute she is, and it hurts me that I'm his girlfriend, and he doesn't even send anything to me, it's like I have to ask to remind him, but to everyone else he sends. I know its stupid, but this has hurt me, and I don't know if i should stay put and say nothing, as he always does little things like this to hurt me. Should I tell him, or see how it pans out? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (9 May 2006):
 My dear, you need to give this boyfriend of yours an ultimatum. You need to tell him EXACTLY how you feel and if at any point in the relationship you are hurt by his actions, you need to tell him straight otherwise he will carry on like this and you wont be happy. Be bold, just tell him straight that you are not happy. Good luvk. xXx
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (9 May 2006):
 There is no point in seeing how this pans out...he may not even be aware that he is cutting you out like this. I completely understand why you are feeling like this and it is perfectly natural. You need to sit your guy down and tell him that you feel left out and that you are his friend and not just his girlfriend and that you want to be more involved. He should appreciate this. Its a really bad idea to say nothing because you will eventually build a resentment against him and his friends for this without even meaning to...he should be involving you because as his girlfriend you are a part of his life now. If eh doesn't see it that way then he doesn't deserve you. I hope that he listens and understands and hope that this will help. Keep me posted on how it goes...GOOD LUCK!!! x
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