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It bothers me that I'm his "second" girl

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Question - (28 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2011)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

although he ws in my class for 5 years in school,we never talked.i never noticed this guy though he used to sat on the bench next to me.he had a crush on other girl from our class.

but for me it was love at 1st sight wen i saw him on d 1st day of my degree college.we became friends,then best friends,he got a crush on me while i played his dating assistant!now we are in a close 2.5 years old relation but the fact of being his second girl always bothers me.

i never tell this to him due to the fear that he would stop being frank to me.i don't want him to hide any of his feelings from me since m his friend before being a girl friend.it hurts a lot whenever a trace of his crush or any related thing comes into picture.but m just helpless.come what may i want him to forget her at any cost cz it gets me a feeling of not being the better.

is there any solution?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011):

Most people have had more then just ONE relationship in their time, so you'l have to get used to being his second CRUSH. Because honestly, that just does not matter at all!

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