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writes: my partner wants me to be more adventurous in the bedroom, i think its a mans duty to do most of the work as it seems to be only about them, he sometimes try's to involve me more but he prefers to try to please me after he has come,by then i just wonder whats the point. Reply to this Question
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reader, friargreg  +, writes (26 September 2008):
No it's not a MAN's duty to do most of the work...
my wife puts no effort forth into even getting off herself. I end up doing all the work, and when I'm finished, she wants a cuddle... "I'm sorry, I don't remember you being part of anything." I may as well have been masturbating, which she frowns on.
Before, we were like animals, she initiated everything, now she just lays there, if she ever consents at all.
Women SHOULD try to get as much out of it as possible, it's give and take, the perfect balance of selfishness and altruism. It's a sharing experience. It should be "I'm going to have fun, and you are too."
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reader, Tine  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 the point is that when you have sex with someone you try to get the most pleasure out of it as possible! Think yourself lucky to have such a guy as this, most men would rather just roll over and fall asleep once they have came! Its great that your man choses to please you too in bed instead of being selfish and only being in it for himself. Do you not want to be pleasured too? If you do it doesnt really sound like it! Maybe your man has an idea of your feelings and is trying to get you to be more adventurous so that you see sex as more of a pleasureable and fun activity rather than a chore. Spice up your sex life and take control, only you know what turns you on and what buttons you need pushed. So guide your man to the spot and reap the benfits!
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