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writes: my partner wants me to be more adventurous in the bedroom, i think its a mans duty to do most of the work as it seems to be only about them, he sometimes try's to involve me more but he prefers to try to please me after he has come,by then i just wonder whats the point. Reply to this Question |
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reader, shawn styles  + ♥, writes (4 October 2006):
Sex should not be a "Duty" (as you put it) for either sex.
You need to make sure that you both give each other lots of foreplay. This could consist of mutual masturbation, oral sex, sexy dancing, feeding each other "love" foods e.g. chocolate and strawberries or a sexy massage. It really doesn't matter as long as it turns you BOTH on.
If possible he could try to give you an orgasm (through whatever method you prefer) BEFORE intercourse. Then you should return the favour but don't make him come.
This should increase your sex drives and give you greater sensations and the thril of this will lead to sexual discovery and one HELL OF A TIME!
Wishing you the best of luck.
x x x Love S.S x x x
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reader, Tine +, writes (4 October 2006):
 the point is that when you have sex with someone you try to get the most pleasure out of it as possible! Think yourself lucky to have such a guy as this, most men would rather just roll over and fall asleep once they have came! Its great that your man choses to please you too in bed instead of being selfish and only being in it for himself. Do you not want to be pleasured too? If you do it doesnt really sound like it! Maybe your man has an idea of your feelings and is trying to get you to be more adventurous so that you see sex as more of a pleasureable and fun activity rather than a chore. Spice up your sex life and take control, only you know what turns you on and what buttons you need pushed. So guide your man to the spot and reap the benfits!
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