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IShould look for him again or should I just move on?

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Question - (22 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2009)
A male Ireland age 30-35, *awaii08 writes:

Id just finish my High School last week and I'm pretty sure that I'm never goin to to see my secret crush which turns out to be my first true love. No one knows that I like him except me because im not out.

We are not close in school and we only say hi and how are you.

He might not know about me but I know lots about him.

Reasons why I didnt tell him is because first Im not out, second i cant take the pressure of telling him that i like him, and third he got a girlfriend.

The only weird things i encountered with him is he maked at least 5 eyecontacts with me for about 5-7seconds nd im the one who looked away. This are times that i wanted to him that i love him but it never happend.

Its been 5 years that I'm hiding this feelings for him and I think its going to be forever...

Do you guys think that i should look for him again or should i just move on?

Thx

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A male reader, jakeee United States +, writes (22 June 2009):

Move on there is a lot more fish in the sea, this is only a high school crush, my advise is stop looking and let life take it's course trust me thats the best way to deal with such matter...let it be

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A female reader, love-struckxo Canada +, writes (22 June 2009):

love-struckxo agony auntUh, honey.. I don't mean to sound harsh here, so think of this as just being blunt, I don't mean any harm really.

But does he even like guys? I know it's normal for gays to like straight people.

You don't want to come off as some sort of stalker, the reason I say this is because you say, "He might not know about me but I know lots about him."

I suggest you just walk away, and leave this highschool crush in the past.. work on coming out of the closet and build your confidence to do it!

Take care

xxx

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