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writes:I told my best friend that I fell Inlove with him. He told me he felt the same way and had never met anyone like me, but wasn't ready for a relationship and we are no longer friends. 2 months later I found out he has a girlfriend and I'm still not over him. Is tiiming everything? Will he wake up one day and realize that we were perfect? What should I do? HELP!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 July 2012):
 Timing is not everything. Chemistry is and while YOU felt it for him he does not and will NOT feel it for you...
You need to accept that he lied to you... "I'm not ready for a relationship" really means "i don't want a relationship with YOU" it's just the polite nice way of saying it.
sadly when we feel something for someone we don't want to see the forest for the trees.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2012): How were you perfect when he was lying to you, using you and cheating on his girlfriend?
You're the one who needs to wake up OP, this isn't some amazing dream like romance the guy used you, fucked you over and dumped you.
Wake up OP!
Stop being a deluded love sick idiot, whatever you think you had it was all a lie and not what you thought at all, get over it and move on.
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