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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I always tried to make him be more in love with me(as my friends said so) by trying to brake up and make him beg me not to do it but i truly loved him and we've had sex..We've always been planing about our life our children etc. so before 2-3months i broke up with him for a week but i didn't know he wont want to regret, and he didn't want to be with me anymore, so i went to him crying and he accepted somehow to go back with me but said that he doesn't love me the way he does. After e month he betrayed me, but he's really sorry about it.I don't care much about the betray because i really love him but the thing that I really worry about is r we gonna be together later :( I really wish we'll be, but now when i asked him does he think we're gonna end together he says I don't think soo.. :(... he says he's really sorry but he doesn't think that we're gonna B together, I asked him why, he said IDK, sometimes I love you very very much, sometimes I just love you a bit, and sometimes I don't love you. I'm really depressed all I do is cry all day and he knows it, he told me not to think of it, and just enjoy the good times together cuz if we brake up we'll have good memories. I just can't do it, i love him with all my heart and all i do is cry and cry, and just think of him. I'm ready to do anything just to be with him :( and marry him. Everyone thinks that this is true love and we're gonna end together althought we're 18, but as I don't live in a developed country here to have sex before marriage is not a good thing. I want to know what's ur opinion and what advices could u give to me :( cuz i'm feeling really really bad :(plz. Guys just don’t tell me I’m too young to think ‘bout it :'( cuz I love him madly, I’m ready to do anything for him :'(Tell me what u really think of this :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Look.
I'll level with you here. Just don't be subserviant to anyone. Not a man. Not a woman.
True love is rarer that blue diamonds. And if you are one of the lucky few a century to find it, then do what you can to keep it without sacrificing your own individualism.
You're 18 and an adult. Therefore no one can tell you whether or not you can or can't have sex, nor when, or with who.
From his answers. It appears he doesn't feel as strongly for you as you do for him. And this not his fault so don't go being mean because of that.
Try breaking up for a little bit, on the provision that you will only date some other people for a bit. Once that happens you'll know if the love is true, because if it is, no one will compare to each other for either of you.
Good luck, and try not to bring yourself down.
Flynn 24
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