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writes:I am a 20 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a long time. This is a really embarassing question but I feel like I have no one else to ask. My boyfriend and I are both sexually active and have had sex many times (30+ times, heh) and i've never had an ejaculation, I mean not that I known of or felt. When we do have sex, it feels really good but for some reason i've never had any. Is there something wrong with me or something wrong with the way we have sex?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (8 January 2008):
Stop thinking that you must ejaculate for you to fully have and enjoy an orgasm! That's wrong.You need to understand what sexual pleasure is and it does not automatically mean female ejaculation.What's important is to be able to orgasm if you can have sex and reach orgasm,you'll be sexually satisfied.What would you do if you found out that you can't ejaculate?Don't make it a goal let it happen naturally but one thing i can tell you is that the more g-spot orgasms you have the more likely you are to ejaculate.Clitoral orgasms rarely produce female ejaculation.
Good luck and take care.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 Well having an orgasm and female ejaculation and .. not worlds apart but.. actually scratch that. they are worlds apart.
Its not uncommen at all. i think its something like 23% of wormen don't orgasm from sex. it doesn't matter how many times you do it.
my Ex had this problem. she never got off with with anyone.
This being said she also never masturbated.
I'm not sure what you views are on masturbation however as i said to her. " if you don't know what you lik, how the hell am i ment to know?"
Its something you have to figure out on your own what works for othes may not work for you.
as for female ejaculation... eh one step at a time.
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