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writes: Well, late last night I was with my soon to be roomate/bf and when he thought I wasn't looking checked his cell phone for a text message or voice mail. Normally, no biggie I know. What's caught my attention about this was the night before after a few drinks he mention a previous friend/love interest out of the blue in a way that made it seem like they are closer then he led on. What was the point I wonder? But the kicker was our conversation before going to bed after I saw him check his phone. Its been known that he's been planning an outting w. this friend along w. other friends, but stated he was going 2 nights in a row. I'm a big advocate of autonomy, but our time together right now is already limited to that standard to begin with. I did let him know I am free one of those nights so is only going one night, but I wonder what that plan was all about? Should I ask him for a 'break' until I feel more certain bout things before he's completely moved in? Or, is it time to take out the trash or am I being too judgemental? I LOVE outsiders takes on things, please do share your opinion/experiences.
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reader, KirstyLH +, writes (26 April 2006):
hi love if i was you i would ask him before making any plans to take a brake explian to him that you do trust him but somthing caught your attention and you need to be sure before you can commit to moving in together. i duno if thats the right thing to do but thats what i would do. good luck xx
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