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writes:My boyfriend has a really low sex and drive and this is causing problems. I'm not mad at him for this, I know we're all different and if it weren't for his circumstances and past, I wouldn't be so bothered. I get wound up about this because he's been with literally hundreds of women before me. He's not like that anymore, him cheating isn't even in question, he never would, but how can he suddenly not be interested in sex when he's in love but he'd do all that before?I know he was younger and more stupid but is there something about making love with someone they care about that bores men after a while, compared to having another girl every night?! Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Can be like that for men, and women, but tends to be more a male thing, Thats because we are wired differently. Men can have sex with little or no emotional envolvement. Women dont tend to be like that. My mum once said she falls in love with guys once she sleeps with them. I wouldnt go that far! But i also wonder if hes done sex to death in the past & wants to slow down now! But it could be he struggles with it in a long term relationship.
Have you spoken to him about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): I know where you are coming from.My man once was what I would call a male slut. Picking up strangers for a quickie seemed to be his badge of honour. He told me that a one night stand was simply a physical release whereas being with your girlfriend involved emoitions and that is something he still struggles to let go with. It sure is frustrating (in more ways than one) but you can't force someone to make love. The fact it is called making love makes him back off. Luv, I know the problem but still haven't found the answer. I will keep watching this thread with interest to seeif another bloke has some tips......i could do with some too. Good luck.
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