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Is there more to life than the same routine of the last ten years?

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Question - (26 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have been with by boyfriend for 10 years and we have lived together for the last 7 years.

I was very young when I met him (15).

I love him, but over the last few months I have been wondering if at 25 there isn't more to life than routine.

We do get on well but the spark has definitely gone.

Last night I opened up to him and said that I wasn't happy and was considering leaving.

He was a wreck; I have never seen him in such a state.

I am confused as I hate to hurt him this bad, I am scared to lose everything I have even known, but at the same time cannot help wondering if I could be happier somewhere else.

What should I do?

Thanks in advance for you advice.

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2006):

smeedle agony auntYour relationship is stale, either:-

Spice it up, if you can be bothered or:

End it now before another unhappy year goes by, he is bound to be upset but like us all he will in time get over it, it is your life and your happiness too.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006):

You should just be glad that you have met someone who loves you and wants to be with you, try being a 25 year old virgin that no-one ever looks at and that life is just passing by then maybe you might have a problem at least someone knows you are alive!

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