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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My current boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We got together after we had both recently gotten out of breakups. Our relationship was great except for a few occasions when his ex seemed to contact him out of nowhere and he would act strange about it. Then a month ago, I found out that he had been in contact with her the whole time and lied about it. He had also talked to her dad and kept a photo album of her. As we continued to try to work through it it turned out that he had started our relationship without ending their relationship. He swears that it did end shortly after we got together- though not how he had originally told me. He says that he knows that he made a huge mistake, that he is over her, completely in love with me, and will do anything to fix it, etc. The worst part is that I still feel that I am in love with him. Is there anything we can do to move past this or is it a lost cause?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 April 2010):
If he was willing to cheat on her with you, then he could do it to you. If he lied that he had just got back into contact and was in fact in contact with her all the time. You don't know whether something has been happening behind you back. This is a man who has lied on many levels to two women. I think you can do better.
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