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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday, he is off to college in September, and he says he wants to get ready. And when we were watching a movie the other nite, one of my ex-friends Roxy called and asked wat he'll be doing that nite...he says he's alone at the moment...and all this time he has been telling me that he loves me, and will never do anything behind my back, and here i had just witnessed a girl asking him to make plans together. also, the two have hurt me last year, he broke up with me because he thought i was cheating him, unfortunatly, it was her who had made the rumor about me cheating on him while he was on the land.After all he said to me, after all those wonderful nites, i feel totally crashed and heart-broken...my luv for him wa true, and he said he loved me...after experiencing this...i don't know how to feel, but then at the same time, i know to try and move on, but its hard with him sticking around all the time...i feel like a total jerk for dating him in the first place...he gave me gifts, he gave me pleasure, but why would he say he loves someone and do the opposite back?i really need help...well, not really really, but some advice to keep my heart pumping and support to give me strength.is there anything i can do to forget him? Should i date other guys, or focus on something else?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 You are young and just out of a relationship, so i would give yourself some time to adjust to this.
Don't jump into another relationship as it would be too soon, just go out and have fun with your friends and live a little for a while.
Is there any sports or anything like that that interest you, where maybe they run a club you could join, something like that may help you and stop you thinking about him.
Take care.xx.
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reader, fergiepunk +, writes (28 June 2007):
I fell in love unfortunately with my best friend. I saw her a lot and as hard as it was I got over her. What to do is spend some time apart. If he texts dont reply for a while, if on msn dont talk or maybe even block for a little while. Try and shift your attention from him to another guy, look for another guy who you seem to like a bit talk to them more and hopefully it will grow and you'll like them better.
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