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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So, I am really good friends with this girl. We're both going to be sophmores in the same county but we go to different schools. We have really gotten to be pretty close but we never see each other due to sports or lack of effort, on her part, not mine. We've only been to the movies once together and it was just as friends.Now, she liked this guy who is one of my best friends, and she thinks he loves her even though he is going out with another girl who he said "He wanted to spend the rest of his life with", etc, and said he only wanted to "f" my friend.Now, before he went out with this girl, he was basically playing my friend, and got her to send him a nude picture. This troubled me greatly. I thought my friend was better than that and it made me really angry that my other friend would basically beg her to send it to him.So....thats kind of it for the sitution...now my problem: My guy friend wants to just have sex with her because she is hot. She thinks he loves her for who she is. So she most likely would have sex with him. I really don't want to see her get hurt or anything. And she is not the smartest girl ever either. I feel like I'm her only guy friend who actually cares about her, and I do like her as more than that too. So I guess really what I'm wondering is three things:1. How do I make sure she makes the right choices in life without compromising our friendship? She seems to get mad at me everytime I tell her bad stuff about my other friend who she likes, and she thinks she is smart...even though she was wrong about everything before.2. When she does make bad decisions, how do I deal with them? I am a very emotional person and I really just want her to be the nice, innocent girl, that I first knew her as. 3. Is there any way that I could become more than friends with her while still protecting her? To me, her life is more important than us going out, but it would still be nice.Oh, and also, originally I thought it might be best to stop being friends with her, but I told her that...and she cried...and said how important I was to her...and its very confusing. Sorry for the complicated question....but its a complicated thing.
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