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Is the whole orgasm thing overrated?

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Question - (20 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, *oungandrestless writes:

hey ive been with the same guy for a year and a half. he was my first and is fairly experianced in bed. ive always been up for some pretty interesting stuff and he's been game for it all. the only problem is, not matter what he does ive never seemed to orgasm. ive never entered the state of bliss, never had chills never even really came. its not that i dont enjoy sex with him, sometimes we go for hours and my legs feel like jelly after. am i just expecting too much? how do i know if i orgasm. ive never been able to bring myself to an orgasm either, is there something wrong with me? am i just incapable of orgasaming or is the whole thing just over rated?

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A female reader, Entirely Unique United Kingdom +, writes (21 March 2010):

Entirely Unique agony auntIts not that easy for alot of women to have an orgasm but I do find knowing your own body and spending time finding out what you like and what feels good will always help in being able to get the right results when in bed with someone else.

Have you tried any toys or anything like that?

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