After the gym...everything is hurting and I am worried I have damaged something.
Q. I was in the gym yesterday and everything was okay...some weights, some treadmill etc etc- the norm. Today however my shoulder muscles are hurting terribly and i am worried i might have done damage or something. please help. thanks....
A. 8 March 2008: Any type of exercise you should always start and finish with a warm up kind of exercise and you should always slowly bring your body into adjusting to the new exercise, I know when i do exercise the next day and sometimes a few more after that I ... (read in full...)
Does joining an adult dating site make me look desperate??
Q. I'm considering joining one of those websites where you find people who are looking for intimate/sexual relationships... But I'm a bit concerned about how that may look and how people look at me. I know it shouldn't matter, but I worry it would make ...
A. 8 March 2008: I personally myself wouldn't join a dating agency, I would prefer to find someone not intentionally looking for someone but I'm the one that makes the stop and think I want to be with her.
I would use something like a chatroom, you'd get to know... (read in full...)
My head is a mess...i've fallen for this guy but I know there is another girl but think it's not serious.
Q. I met a guy about a month ago and during that time I've grown quite fond of him. He is amazing, and I mean that in every possible way. He is gorgeous, funny, very succesful, kind, everything, he is just amazing. When I think about him I just smi...
A. 8 March 2008: He could have asked if you was seeing someone just to return the question out of sheer politeness so I wouldn't get too stuck on reasons why.
The best thing you can do is be his friend, get to know him and let him get to know you, he could be feel... (read in full...)
I can't bear the thought of spending the rest of my life with him...but he just won't leave.
Q. hi, ive been married 22 years and since i turned 40, 2 years ago, ive realised how unhappy i am and all i can remember of my 1st 20 yrs of marriage misery. My 2 kids are now grown up and im far from happy with my husband,, dont think i ever rea...
A. 8 March 2008: If he won't leave and this is something you really want then I would suggest you are the one leaving, this will give you the break from him and also a new fresh start thats not in the marital home you shared with your husband.
Make sure this is real... (read in full...)
If I just drink Fanta and Coke till Easter Sunday and eat nothing will I lose weight??
Q. Dear Cupid, what will happen to me if i only drink fanta or coke zero til easter sunday? And eat nothing? I just have one can a day (330 ml) and that it. Will i lose any weight? What side effects would it cause me to have? Is this an awful idea? T...
A. 8 March 2008: If you don't eat when you do the food you do eat will be stored as fat and will make you very bloated and appear of a higher weight than what you actually are.
The best way to lose weight is to eat the right amount of everything within your diet... (read in full...)
I worry so much about having sex, even after 5 years of being in a relationship. Please help?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are in a very loving relationship. I really am very happy but there is just one problem; sex. For almost 4 years of our relationship I had constant kidney and urine infections which meant sex ...
A. 8 March 2008: Is there something worrying you that is causing you to shy away from sex or is it just you don't want it or don't feel sexually aroused?
I would also like to know same as DoubleM on whether you even find your boyfriend attractive etc as maybe it's... (read in full...)
I wanna help in my mysterious love...
Q. I was having a bf for 1 year and I really left him from only 5 days and returned to someone i was talking to before knowing my x-bf...... when i was talking to this person he was telling me about his girlfriend i feel jealous but i was smiling and ...
A. 8 March 2008: Only you know whats going on in your head and heart.
You've got to do whats right for you and do what will make you happy but if you do choose this guy and go for it and for some reason doesn't return your feelings you can't then return to your ex a... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid for getting upset coz we aint even an item?
Q. Hiya! There is this guy i really like, we aint in a relationship but we meet up whenever he has time and shows alot of affection etc. Been doing this for 5 months. well what it is he has gone away to ireland for 4 days with the guys, he will be...
A. 8 March 2008: Just because you aren't an item doesn't mean you don't hold valid feelings for this guy.
The fact you aren't an item means theres more freedom for him to do things someone wouldn't do if you was an item therefore more chance of you suffering jeal... (read in full...)
I trust him my life, but I just don't know about his poor judgement.
Q. Lately my boyfriend and I have been getting into arguments over the most petty stuff. He constantly accuses me off cheating, and he makes me feel like crap when he does it. When he brings it up I tell him I would never do such a thing and I tell...
A. 8 March 2008: I've found in some situations what someone accuses you is them with the guilty mind because it's something they're doing themselves.
My ex constantly accused me of cheating when I never went anywhere to do so, later on came the knowledge that he h... (read in full...)
How much porn do men watch? Should I be worried?
Q. This question is directed at men, but I'd like anybody's input I can get: I don't think there's anything wrong with porn, I watch a bit of it myself on occasion... but I recently moved in with my boyfriend and I'm realizing that he may be addicted ...
A. 8 March 2008: I would be worried about even 10 mins a day let alone hours, you recently moved in with him surely you both should still be enjoying the 'honeymoon' period instead of him going off to watch porn.
I don't have a problem with porn again like you I've... (read in full...)
How to meet a new girl and ask her out?
Q. It's one thing ive never had the guts to do...go up to a girl ive never met before in my life and ask her out or for her number...My biggest fear is being rejected and/or here saying she has a boyfriend cause then I have to walk away knowing she is ...
A. 8 March 2008: As a female I know that whether I had a boyfriend or wasn't interested in the guy approching me I would be very flattered and it would make me smile.
You've got nothing to lose apart from maybe a little embarrassment from rejection but you don'... (read in full...)
My feeling to that is that she has become slightly taken in with this other guy...
Q. It look like I am about to split with my wife of 4 years (together for 8 years before that) We are both 28 years old so doing the math means we have been togther since we were 16 years old, childhood sweethearts as the saying goes. Anyway over the...
A. 8 March 2008: You are right to both come to the decision she's best going back to her parents to sort her head out, this will be good for both of you, this will give you time to be without her and you might find out somethings you don't realise now.
You've been... (read in full...)
He lied, cheated, stole, and is an alcholic. Why do I want him back?
Q. I was in a realtionship with an alcholic for nine months. we lived together right from the start. I knew what he was like, but yet i thought like everyone else i could change him. He cheated, lied, stole money from me, and treated me like crap. He ...
A. 8 March 2008: In his mind or not he hadn't broke up with you therefore whatever way he want's to look at this he still cheated on you.
He needs help with his alcohol problems as that is probably why he's stealing and until he gets that help I really don't thin... (read in full...)
My husband has a very controlling nature and the past year has got worse...
Q. I have been married over ten years and my relationship is in tatters, my husband has a very controlling nature and the past year has got worse, the physical abuse has stopped but the emotional abuse is just as draining, will he ever change and is it ...
A. 8 March 2008: If you love him and don't want to walk away from him and what you've built together than maybe try talking to him, getting some help for you as a couple and trying to find a way past all this.
I personally believe a leopard doesn't change their spot... (read in full...)
After a bad break-up I want something serious again...but I just can't seem to decide which guy I like the most. Please help.
Q. Well, i haven't had a boyfriend in a while now, he dumped me and i took it quite badly to be honest..and ever since then i can't seem to keep my eyes on that one special person.. I mean, i like his mate Jamie but i also like a few other guys but...
A. 8 March 2008: I think maybe you're looking for 'someone, anyone' and viewing most guys as potential 'relationship' material instead of taking your time, getting to know new people and forming something deeper and more meaningful with someone (which will come ... (read in full...)
When I hint I like a guy nothing happens..so I have decided it is time to take action.
Q. My self esteem has reached an all time high and I feel great! :D Guy's are flirting with me and I am flirting back. I feel very attracted to some of the guys and when I really, really hint that I like them, nothing happens. and I've realized...
A. 8 March 2008: It's great you are feeling this way and no it's not wrong, nowadays it's very common and seen to be normal to most people for things to be equal.
I would try for something light, nothing to heavy or formal just meeting up for an afternoon less 'dat... (read in full...)
I don't treat my boyfriend well...do I need medical help??
Q. Me and my BF are totally in love with each other for the past 3 years. I'm the only child in my family; most of the time im selfish but my man is not like that (he has a sister) i always get what i want, 3 yrs ago i want him as my boyfriend and now ...
A. 8 March 2008: It does sound like you are holding some issues, maybe theres something in you or your life that is making you lash out no matter how much you don't want to, as you know your boyfriend loves you and has allowed your behaviour in the past you then ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I like another boy and am scared to leave him, but can't carry on with this relationship.
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly..8 months now. I'm 14, hes 15. He's my first. And he's my first love. I recently moved about 30 minutes away from him due to school. So, now i can only see him in the weekends. Well i made a guy...
A. 8 March 2008: Take yourself away from both boys and follow your heart, but don't act mindlessly because this new boy could seem all good just because you are missing your boyfriend and this other boy is with you alot more.
Things are going to be tough with your... (read in full...)
How can I approach him when I am scared of rejection and looking bad in front of my friends??
Q. I really like this boy; he goes to a diffrent school to me but all my freinds know him and that is how i know him. A few months back we started talking on msn, he said he liked me and i was pretty then we just stopped talking (i kept it from my ...
A. 8 March 2008: Nobody likes rejection I know I don't but you've got to weigh out whats more important, few moments of embarrassment through rejection which people will forget or possibly getting the boy you want.
Everything life throws at us we learn from it, and ... (read in full...)
Are older guys less eager or is there a problem??
Q. I have a boyfriend that is in his midfifties and we knew each other for awhile as friends(almost a year). We were both attracted to each other from the beginning but both of us are very reserved and got to know one another slowly. In the 2 months...
A. 8 March 2008: Or maybe he wants to wait til your first time together at his house when you actually take this relationship further before he ejaculates with you.
There could be a problem but as you said you've talked about everything so I can't see why he woul... (read in full...)
Should I take a chance on the boy I like??
Q. I really like this lad in the year above me, we've known each other for ages and i can talk to him about almost anything. But i'm not sure whether he likes me too in that way, or just as a mate as i keep getting mixed signals from him. I don't know ...
A. 8 March 2008: All the time he's giving mixed signals you're unsure on where he stands regarding you, you've got nothing to lose by telling him how you feel but you could have something to gain.
If he doesn't feel the same then at least you then know and can get ... (read in full...)
I think it's a bit out of reach but should I tell him how I feel anyway??
Q. Ok so here’s the deal. I’m gay/bi (still trying to figure that part out but at least I do like guys) So I kind of know this guy lets call him Ken and I meet him a few weeks ago at the pub, he knows my best mate, and we played darts had a few pints ...
A. 8 March 2008: I would spend more time with him as friends, if nothing comes of you both you'll have a great friendship and if something does come of you then the relationship will be built on a solid friendship which is always a good way to begin any kind of ... (read in full...)
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