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Is the age difference a problem if neither person acts their age?

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Question - (29 November 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

if a 15 year old girl is dating a 22 year old wrong if they both are attractive to one another and they both don't look there age and both don't act there age?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011):

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okay but the thing this where i am the age of consent is 15..so even if that your just dating him getting to know him your not trying to marry the dude

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010):

I disagree with most of the comments which have been left when I was 15 I dated a 20 year old and we didn't even sleep with eachother until I was legal so if you think your mature enough for this realtionship go for it. My advice though is too not sleep with him until your legal! If he doesnt appreciate that then that does proves he is only intrested in one thing

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010):

So DATING equals sex now does it?

They can date and all that, but it becomes illegal the second it turns sexual.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (29 November 2010):

Honeypie agony auntHow they look and act doesn't matter much when it comes to the law. The LAW says it's illegal.

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (29 November 2010):

largentsgirl89 agony auntRegardless of how either person at either of the age acts, the law doesn't care.

22 year old dating a 15 year old is illegal, at least where I am it is, sixteen is the age of sexual consent and you have to be within four years of each other, otherwise its statuatory rape if you two engage in sexual relations.

I know people say love doesn't have a "number" on it, but that isn't the case when one is over eighteen and the other is under sixteen. If they really love each other and want to be together, then I would wait until she is eighteen to start dating, or at least wait until then to start ANYTHING sexual.

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A female reader, Mjfbla United States +, writes (29 November 2010):

Mjfbla agony auntYes, looks dont mean a thing. And im assuming the 15 yr old acts more mature and the 22 yr old acts less. It doesnt matter how mature the 15 yr old is the a 22 yr old shouldnt be interested in her.

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