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Is she just trying to keep me around?

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Question - (19 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2008)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

I have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years. She is 24 yo and I am 45 yo. She is Ukranian and I American. We started as friends and became lovers. We did everything together. She wanted to get married. I treated her to the best restaurants, clothes, etc. During the course of the relationship there were always small oddities such as going out with the girls or not answering her telephone at times. About 4 months ago she told me she did not want to go out like that any more. But we could still be friends. I have been spending every Thursday and Saturday with her since and having a great time. We kiss and have fun. I do treat her to dinner on Thursdays and spend money on her for gifts and such. I have been feeling that she may be around just for the monetary stuff but she seems genuine to me. A few days ago I called her and she did not answer. She texted me saying she was ok. I texted her numerous times asking where she was. She texted me back saying she was fine. It then got ugly to the point she told me to leave now and when I asked if she was in love with someone else she said she is. This morning a got a text message from her asking how I was and telling me it is cold outside and do I need gloves. She had my gloves at her house. I look at this as an attempt to keep me around again. Thoughts.

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A female reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (20 December 2008):

SoftlyCaress agony auntMaybe what she is wanting is a sugar daddy instead of a husband or boyfriend ?? At any rate I wouldnt go over the edge indulging her with alot of fancy stuff could be she is just using you and that isnt a good thing ......

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