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*arrybaggs
writes:A girl I really like. We work for the same company but not together. A long time ago, the word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. I don't know if they're still together. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely cross. I tried to avoid her as much I could. Eventually we'd chat more. She started using my name when we spoke. She'd laugh at jokes I'd be making with other people, or try to get into conversations I was having with other people. She would ask me for help at work with silly, easy things, or brings up really mundane work things if I go past her and don't say anything. If she's with me and I don't saying anything she will ask about what time I finish at, or giggles at the little bad jokes I make. She also does this thing where she says hello to me, and puts on this weird high sighing voice when she says it. She also acts a bit light-hearted or goofy at work if I'm about, like if there's a problem with the photocopier she will pretend she's mad at it or call it a silly name. She came up to where I work today whilst on her break (she had no business being there) and waved at me even though she was super close, had her phone to her ear but didn't appear to talk to anyone. She turned to leave again and I asked a silly question and she giggled, answered and left. She later on told me what days she was working this week. Is she interested in me at all or just being nice? Or is she msybe unsure of her or my feelings, or where we are at?Thank you for taking time to read this.
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reader, Barrybaggs +, writes (22 November 2014):
Barrybaggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe never went out- she ended up changing her mind because she got back with her ex. Guess you were right Tisha.
I feel like the world's biggest loser.
Thanks for listening.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 October 2014):
 Hi Barry, I'm hoping you had a great time on your date! Any update?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 October 2014):
Good luck and have a great time on your date!
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reader, Barrybaggs +, writes (11 October 2014):
Barrybaggs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey
Just a quick update for anyone reading- I asked her if she was interested in going out one time and she said yes! I've got her phone number and we are planning to try do something next week. :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 October 2014):
She's not interested, Barry. Reading your past poets about her, she's just trying to keep things light and bright and smooth so you can work together.
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