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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So at the beginning of this year my best friend Kayla got a boyfriend. Due to her boyfriends busy schedule with sports and all, usually when they're hanging out she'd invite me too (because we never really have time to hang). Her boyfriend doesn't like being the only guy so he gets his best friend to tag along as well. The first time I saw his best friend, I couldn't stand him. Seriously, everything about the guy screamed "A-HOLE". But after getting to know him I can honestly say I've started to develop feelings for him.Now I'm young so I'm not saying this is LOVE, but it's nice liking someone again. For a little over a month things went smoothly and we started spending alot of time together. Then all of a sudden there's this new girl that's hanging out with us. Now she's nice and all, but she only befriended me AFTER she realized I was chill with this guy. Last night was his birthday and we were all playing a bunch of cheesy games for fun. We headed to his basement and played "Truth or Dare". This b--ch who ALSO has a crush on him dared him to kiss one of my friends. She declined because she didn't want me to feel betrayed or something. Then she told him to kiss the "new girl" instead. ... She didn't even PRETEND to not want it.I know I sound selfish and bitchy right now, but like she didn't even consider my feelings. I can honestly say because I care about her I would have said no in that position. We're suppose to be friends.So what should I do?Should I act like everythings fine with her?Tell her the truth?Is this guy even WORTH it?I'm tired of this, I'm too young to have to be concerned over relationships.But on a side note : My best friend and his best friend are dating. It would make sense for us to date, right? :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Yes u are very young and definitely do not need to worry abt relationships at this age. Trust me. In a couple of years its going to mess up your system anyway :-P
for now remember this that dating should be fun. Not bout abusing or judging friends. Also. There is nothing like "making sense". Jus coz ur friend is datin his best friend doesnt mean u two should as well. Watatters is how you feel and even more importantly how he feels.
If u genuinely like him then go and tell him. If he returns your feelings its great but if he doesnt then u cannot go around calling ur friend a bitch.
A lot of guys will come in your life. Its not worth losing ur girlfriends over it.
:)
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