A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been together with my girlfriend since 2007 till now.. In between we broke up for a year.. Early this year, she went National Service for 3 months, and I promised to wait for her. I did. She's back now.. Throughout the waiting period, I missed her very much.. I thought of her very often.. I'll not fail to text and call her every weekend. But ever since she came back from N.S, I felt different.. Both of us.. It's like we've changed totally.. We didn't spend much time texting or calling each other anymore.. We used to text for at least 150 messages a day but since the day she came back from NS, we've not texted much.. For 3-4 days, only 100-150 messages.. I gave her a lot of personal time, like finding me when she's free or having tough times coz she just came back from NS, so she'll miss her friends alot.. yea? but not to the extend of neglecting me right? And now, I feel bored to be in a relationship anymore.. I did not question her about her feelings toward me.. She still tells me 'I love you' before she sleeps and sometimes when she's busy or when i'm busy.. I used to reply the same to her but now not.. I hesitated when I typed that.. I'm no longer sure of my feelings anymore.. Is it fading or has it faded?Please help :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): thanks. ended already :)
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reader, wild orchid  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 you're love for her faded, i dont think its healthy enough to stay any longer in a relationship whom you think is boaring. you are making her believe you love her when deep inside you, you are confused about what you feel anymore. it's not right holding on in a relationship when you know its not working.
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