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writes:PLEASE HELP!I am 24 yrs old and recently got married 2 weeks ago to a man I been knowing for about 9 yrs and dated for 7 and I love very dearly and was excited about being with him the rest of my life until yesterday. I was bein a prude when someone txtd him and I asked who it was and he told me. And I demanded to search his phone and when I thoroughly searched his email I found countless messages dating back to a year ago that he sent to MEN.. talkin sexual. Requesting encounters and etc.. I am petrified I asked him about it and he said. It was out of curiosity and he never did anything with a guy. I don't know what to believe I love this man so much and I was due to move with him labor day weeknd cause he Is in the military but. I'm soo afraid I can't stop crying and I feel soo alone! He begged be not to tell a soul cause that's not what he want but I feel used and dumb.. I'm so LOST! TEARS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2011): Hun, ask yourself whether in a yers time or two whether u can still be with your hb who is bi or tranny or or or
Do u want tO share him?
HIV/ STDs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much every one for you support. U just don't know how much it means to hv some1 to talk to. Yes I am super stressed confused and I really am goin to the lord on this. New information he finally admitted he has had 2 incidents(sex) with trannys in the past and he was curious about more.. I don't really kno how I feel about that. But he showed me ther pics and they truely look like women.. don't make it right tho! He say he is done with that for good and only wants me.. I love this man. I don't know what to do...
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (8 August 2011):
 You are not being a prude if you were questioning your husbands sexual orientation AND loyalty as his wife.
I would ask him if he is still curious. I would also ask for him to attend couples counseling regarding this new relevation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): I'm so sorry you are going through this and I know how you feel because I went though it as well. My husband hid the fact that he knew he was gay for almost 10 years. He left me and our children for his lover and I still can't believe this has happened to me. If he's communicating with other men most likely he is either secretly gay or bisexual. My heart goes out to you. If I were you I would evaluate your relationship with this man. Good lucy in whatever you decide to do. If you want you can read about my experience with this on my blog: http://www.peoplesinsight.com/articles/8-secrets/84-living-a-lie
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