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writes:How horny is too horny? I am getting to know a guy through calls and emails for almost three months. We are going to meet. He seems to be sexually charged which can be attractive. However, he seems to be thinking of sex 90 percent of the time. The last man I was with had ED even with Vigara so this is the complete opposite. Could this new guy be a sex addict??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): Creepy? I don't see how! You have been getting to know him and obviously like the guy. Maybe judge him by his character and not his sex drive?Some men can be talk and in reality aren't as sexual as they sound. Then again he might be as sexual as you are thinking he is going to be.You could ask him about it, like how often he would have sex etc or just meet him and see how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): Sounds very creepy to me. Dump this guy as soon as you can as I am sure that you deserve much better. You are a beautiful creature and you should never do anything you are not comfortable with, especially with a jerk like that. Dump him now and if he kept being persistent then report him to the police.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (16 March 2010):
 How horny is too horny?
Excellent question, you have hit the point right on the head. There is no normal or average level of sexual interest, drive, or need. It varies from person to person and over the course of your life. It can be affected by experiences in your life. Addiction would be a sex drive that interferes with normal life or that is uncontrollable. In other words feeling horny when he doesn't want to feel horny.
So what is the right level of sexual interest? The level that you find is acceptable to you. Not so frequent that you feel annoyed or worn out. Not so seldom that you fell ignored or unsatisfied. Mismatched libido is a very common problem in relationships. Trying to match levels before proceeding with the relationship is not a guarantee that you will avoid this trouble. It could be fine and comfortable now, but one of you could change over time putting you at unbalance later. A lot of this can be worked out if both partners are giving and flexible. If you are feeling annoyed, think of it as a complement that he is interested in you. Think how nice it will be not to have to wait for him to work up some interest. Help him meet his needs. After all having a happy man will keep you happy.
His libido could be high right now because, in a long distance relationship his physical needs aren't being met. So he could calm down a bit when you are together. While it could be a deal breaker, it is up to you whether or not it will be in your case.
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