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writes:Recently I have met a guy who was friends with my cousin and his girlfriend. Anyway, we all hung out one night and me and this guy totally hit it off. This was a few weeks ago and i have not hung out with him since. We did have a real good time and we had a lot in common. I have a pretty big crush on him now. I think my cousin and his girlfriend want us to get together and they tease me because they think i have a crush on him, which I do, but i have not told anyone. Problem is, I think he might possibly be gay. I just got that vibe from him. I know that he has recently broke up with his girlfriend of nine months. He is the biggest gentleman i have ever met and has lots of feminine qualities, but they make him sensitive but not really gay-like. He is just too nice, open minded, and extremely intelligent. He just doesnt act like most guys. My cousin and his girlfriend dont think he is gay, just really smart and nerdy, but i have some suspicions. I do however, have a crush on him but i dont know what to do cuz i think he might be gay. Please help! What should i do?
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reader, rcn +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Just because he is such a gentleman, you think he's gay?????? Isn't that what girls wish for is a guy like him. If so, you're saying girls need to start turning gay guys strait. There are guys out there that love women, but come across on the feminine side. I worked with one years ago. He's talk to me all the time at work, I'd speed up the conversation so he didn't try anything. I was a nervous wreck when he'd speak to me. He had the fast speaking feminine style, the hand flipping everything you'd expect for someone who shops on the same side of the fence.I began dating a girl, the mother of my daughters, we went to a family reunion. I had no idea this guy was her uncle. He said hi, and was telling everyone how it had been no fun since I stopped working there, and how he wished I'd go back to work there. Talk about the knot in my throat. I was thinking everyone was judging weather or not we were doing gay things together. I told my girlfriend. That guy is gay, and I think he's trying to pick up on me. She was laughing so hard she almost fell over, said I'd like to introduce you to someone, and introduced me to the lady he'd been dating and living with for 13 years. Talk about foot in the mouth.Don't judge a book by it's cover. He may be the guy for you. I'm glad I got set strait, he and his girlfriend became extremely good friends of mine.I hope this helped a bit for you.
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (30 September 2007):
 You might be wrong,he could just be the perfect man:)Dunno what do you usually do when you like a guy but seems like he's worth of a shot.Tell your cousin you like him and she could arrange you hang out again so maybe things will get more clear then.I'll keep my fingers crossed that you're wrong about his sexuall interest lol
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