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Is my boyfriend worried about my reputation?

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Question - (21 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what does it mean when your bf says he doesnt want u hanging out with certain people. mind u all of u grew up together and when i was wayyy younger i kissed one of them thats it. i am a virgin. does this mean he doesnt trust me ? worried about my rep? or he is jus controlling?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (21 December 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntWhat rep? Of being a virgin?

Are you from a strongly religious background (or is he) that makes a kiss into something to be ashamed off?

I think it means he is either a control freak or has problems trusting. After all, you did nothing wrong and if you are still a virgin at your age, you are hardly likely to jump in the sack with an old friend for no reason.

Ask him why he doesn't want you to hang out with your friends, who you did nothing with that he has cause to be upset about. Or is there something else?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (21 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntThat could be a strong indication that he is a control freak. The problem is that he may become increasingly overbearing.

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A female reader, Xolani South Africa +, writes (21 December 2009):

Xolani agony auntHe is controlling but you must do is to asure him of your love for him and you can be trusted.In a good relationship trust plays a big role.

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