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Is my boyfriend having a secret sex life behind my back?

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Question - (1 October 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The situation is me and my boyfriend were at his best friends house. Suddenly there was a knock on the door and his friend answers it and steps outside.A minute later my boyfriend gets up and tells me "ill be back" and he goes outside with his friend. I realized he had my cell phone and attempt to go after him when his best friends sister says to me "that's right girl,go get your man,dont let him leave you in here while he goes outside with those girls". I was puzzled i had no idea what she was talking about,but when i went outside there was two women talking to them.First my boyfriend looks at me a little strange like i wasnt suspose to be included. when the girls looked at me they appeared to be slightly uncomfortable.My boyfriend always introduces me to anyone new but this time he didnt,he was also not being affectionate like a few minutes before these girls came. He also mentioned he was going to the girls house to fix thier computer which i knew about but he told me it was a business women and this women was quiet young and unprofessional. We all stood outside and conversated for awhile and everything was fine but when me and my boyfriend left he suddenly became affectionate agian.DOES THIS SEEM FISHY TO YOU OR AM I BEING JEALOUS,SHOULD I ASK HIM ABOUT IT ????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2011):

Hes being his friends wingman, plain and simple... hes not having an affair

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2011):

Im so sorry to tell you this, but it really seems like something is going on. Ive been in your shoes and it hurts especially when you feel the knot in your gut when your boyfriend and his girl 'friends' are together. Your instincts are going off and pointing you in the right direction..

You do not need to put up with this, there are plenty of better guys out there who wont play with your heart. Best of luck to you.

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (1 October 2011):

mizz.butterflies agony aunthe's out there creeping. looks like u trusted him a bit too much. best thing to do is NOT to talk about it. keep ur distance, say nothing. dont meet him. let him come to u on his knees.

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