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writes:My boyfriend and I live together and we both go to the same school, he's 20 and I'm 19.So the other day we were kissing on the bed, just messing around.When all of a sudden he pins me to the bed, I tought okay.. but idk.. he did it like really hard, I told him that we were gonna be late but he said just one more minute,He headed for my underwear, but this time I get a little uncomfortable and tell him to stop, it took him a second to stop and than he acted like nothing.(he didnt do anything)He didnt say anything afterwards, he kinda got angry, he's mood changed.idk what to think, is this okay, like I shoulnd get all worked up over this?The thing is that he's never been aggresive (that I know of)and all of the sudden he is?i dont know what to think.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (11 February 2010):
That's understandable. Talk to your boyfriend. If he's got that much passion for you that's great, talk through it so you can find a safe fun way to channel all that wonderful passion in a way you can both enjoy. Good luck darling and if you feel scared again you can always come talk with us.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (11 February 2010):
That's understandable. Talk to your boyfriend. If he's got that much passion for you that's great, talk through it so you can find a safe fun way to channel all that wonderful passion in a way you can both enjoy. Good luck darling and if you feel scared again you can always come talk with us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've been thru an abusive relationship before and I just wanted to make sure it didnt happen again.
I got scared. Thank you
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (10 February 2010):
Sounds hot! lol No seriously, I think maybe your guy was just really really horny and unfortunately you weren't. He had all that passion and hormones coursing through him. You live together so I assume you are sexual? Has it been a while since you had sex? May have just been an isolated incident. If it scared you try talking to him about it and finding out what was the deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): He was probably just trying to be in control. A lot of times the girl dictates if we do or don't have sex. And that's fine, but sometimes you have to let the guy take the lead.
If there are no other flags; if he's never hit you before or called you abusive names etc...then he was just playing rough. Sometimes we don't know how strong we are compared to girls.
He stopped and didn't say anything because it killed the mood.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Well, he might just have felt a huge amount of passion moving through him, and he did stop. But if it happens again, consider leaving. Watch him very carefully.
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