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writes:How can you know if what you're feeling is love.... or something else, such as obsession? When you compare the two states, the only real difference seems to be perspective. Is love really just reciprocated obsession? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lee Adama +, writes (18 December 2009):
Lee Adama is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for your comments....Ask oldersister - Very funny :)Emilysanswers - You are sooo right about that!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 December 2009):
If it's obsession then you'll both dramatically flop off at the first sign of trouble.
If it's love then you'll accept faults and put effort into making things work after the first rush of "OMG HE/SHE IS PERFECT!!!!!123" has worn off.
Give it time and see what happens. This is why I always advise people to wait a few years before marrying / having kids.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 December 2009):
 Nope. Although a lot of people get them mixed up.
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