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writes: boys this is 4 u, is it wrong 4 a girl 2 call a guy and text him first eg. im seeing this guy but havnt heard from him 4 2 weeks i wanna text him or talk 2 him but i dont want it to look like im chasing him, i just basically wanna know whether u think thats being easy or desperate... thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): thanx this helps!!
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reader, bumble bee +, writes (3 October 2006):
hold on, you're seeing a guy but you aint spoke 2him in 2weeks, maybe kinda seems like you've been dumped. (sorry)
send him a text but play it cool, just say something along the lines of; hey aint spoke to you in a while, how are you? what you been up to?
if he dont reply then i think you shouldnt bother anymore, you've made the first move now its up to him to respond. if he doesnt reply dont keep texting, just the one message otherwise you might look desperate
HTH xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): This isn't the 1950's anymore! Be assertive! Go for the goal! You think that girls have a lot to lose? Well if it's just pride, then sure, whatever. Guys lose pride too you know?
If a girl assertively came after me, I wouldn't mind at all. It's all about how she does it. If she does it cheaply like offering her body to me, or send me gifts, etc, etc, etc, try to cater to my wants all the time, etc, etc, etc, then yes, I would find her unattractive and quite cheap actually. However, if she comes after me with interest, but still require me to take initiative to try to catch her, then for sure, it'll make me want her even more.
Then again, this really depends on the guy. Some conservative guys may not like that sort of thing. Some inexperienced guys may have very immature views and react badly to it. I'm neither conservative, nor am I inexperienced (to a degree, still much to learn), and I'm quite daring too. With that said, I appreciate an assertive woman who knows when to bait and tease, and when to move away... 8]
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