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writes:Is it true that some men "never get past sex"? Like if the sexual aspect ofthe relationship has dipped into a less-than-hot-passion phase, thenthe man thinks it's over, and now you're approaching friendship, and hestarts to look around. I am worried that that's what someone dear to meis a little bit about, and that he can't see the long term picture. Especially, men, when did you realize that love is something apart fromsex?And also, he says, about sex that he has to "feel like it." but I've read thatsometimes, in a love relationship, you have to try to be physical in aplanned way, especially if you both are overwhelmingly busy!That may be less spontaneous, but.Hellp!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 To myself sex is not the basis of a relationship and shouldnt be, but can help both people learn about each other and become closer in a physical way as well as a mental way. Dont get me wrong sex is important, but this is something which should grow with the relationship.
There is in most relationships a "honeymoon" period at the beginning where both people find it exciting and fresh to have sex and for some people this period soon diminshes and what your left with is the reality of the relationship. The bare bones if you like, here you get to know the person and men tend to shy away from opening up as easily as women do.
There are men out there who find it easier to express themselves without letting their ego get in the way, so dont make your thoughts about men become a generalisation coz that i dont think is the case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007): Yes, it is true, some men can think only about sex when it comes to relating with women... I do it sometimes. Its the ego thing which many women don't understand..
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