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writes:Hey there, I have just started seeing someone and I am wondering if it is too soon to send him a flirtatious text? We have gone on two dates, both of which were really fun and I think I might really like him. I have never had a real relationship before so I don't know what's normal and what's not. I don't want to embarrass myself!I was planning on texting him on new year's saying something like, "Happy New Year's! wish I were there to give you a new year's kiss"I know I am over analyzing but I can't help it! Is it too soon to send him a text like this? I am with family in a different state right now, or else we would probably be hanging out. We have kissed before. So is it too soon for me to text him something like this?Thank you for your time
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reader, bearN  +, writes (1 January 2012):
 I would surely send him that sms. As it will arouse his interest to meet you again. I have done that with my guy friend. And we end up spending more time with each other. Irrespective of the fact whether he like me more than a friend or not. Just keep having fun. Yes!! please surely keep pace with your sms. Dont keep sending him everyday or every minute cause then it might bore things up. Hope you understand!!!
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (31 December 2011):
 May i just say, you mentioned that you don't know whats normal because you haven't been in a relationship before. I can tell you that in relationships there is no such thing a "normal" way to do things. You find when have more than one partner, that everyone is different in there own way. Some people like to jump right into the whole flirty seductive mode, others get right to it on the first date and then you get the others who want to hold themselfs back. What is this guy like? is he flirty affectionate? or maybe abit vaugue or shy? By looking at his personality and how he acts around you, you should be able to confidently tell if he would find something like this nice, and in future find out what he likes and if he likes to takes things slow or whatever. However as you have kissed him already, and by what you have wrote you seem to be moving on just fine with him, i would say that it is a good and lovely idea to send him that new years text as i am sure he will appreciate it.
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