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writes:Hi There, My girlfrind and I are going out now for 5months and we are really inlove with each other and we are sleeping together, tell me did we move too fast and is it too soon for us to be inlove... coz i know deeply in my heart that I am inlove with Her, I'd die for her. and in this months we have had alot of serious fights, even broke up and got back together quite a number of times. Is that Normal in a relationship? Im 22 turning 23 and She is 19, but i got a strong feeling that this is the girl that I wanna spend the rest off my Life with.
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reader, MeowMix86  +, writes (4 January 2008):
 Wow, sounds like you've got an intense relationship! There is a lot of passion and commitment, so early. That said, of course it isn't too early to say you two are in love, or even that you argue too much or that it isn't normal that you have "broken up" (a fake break up, I don't know a couple who hasn't done this) My boyfriend and I argued a lot early on, but we were also very much in love.It isn't fair to your relationship to compare yourselves to what is "normal", because everyone is different and every couple is different. Certain people bring out certain qualities in us that others don't. For example; you could be the jealous type in one relationship and not in the next. It all depends on the people. So don't worry about that. If you guys are as in love as you say you are, then there is nothing to worry about. You can get through most problems by just trying to understand each other and by taking the time to explain and talk things out...hell it worked for me and my boyfriend...And we have now been going out for a year!
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