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Is it possible to win someone's love by showing your love for them?

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Question - (19 July 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm in a love with a woman who is not in love with me. She doesn't even like me enough to date me. We are only friends.

Is it possible that a woman's heart can change for a man if she continually sees that he genuinely loves her and is there for her and is always looking out for her?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010):

I feel it can but don't count on it. Love does grow. If the woman that you love values security and stability then she may start to feel for you. Does she have another lover and that is preventing her to be in a relationship with you? Does she say she is not attracted to you? Think about all of the reasons why she doesn't want a relationship with you. Do move forward, if it is meant to be it will but don't hurt yourself waiting and wondering what if. You will find someone who does want a relationship with you and deserves you.

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (19 July 2010):

baddogbj agony auntIf she's not attracted to you then she won't become attracted to you BUT if she can't find a guy that pushes all her buttons and she decides to "settle" then you might just be in pole position for that role.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (19 July 2010):

CindyCares agony auntI am not totally sure about that,but I'd be inclined to say no.

Love is in great part irrational. If there's no spark there's no spark. You can't manifacture chemistry.

By showing her your constant devotion and treating her like a princess , you can win her gratitude and her esteem if she is a good woman- or leave yourself open for explotation of she is a bad one. But you cannot make her fall in love.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010):

Yes ofcourse i'm a girl and i know most of the things whats in their mind. If the girl see you effort in a long run she will appreciate effort unless tha girl is in a relationship or she has other crush. I think you need more effort about that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010):

yeah its possible...try it dude

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